Monday, August 3, 2009

Life changes

After alot of thinking and talking. Ryan and I have decided to not be a couple anymore. We have been together for almost 4 years and since Deans dad was killed when he was a baby, Ryan is the only dad Dean has known.
We have struggled for the past couple years trying to make it work between the two of us and it just doesnt. We want different things out of life.
He still wants to be part of Deans life, Thankfully, and we have done alot of talking and both feel like we are better off as friends, We get along great when we arent trying to force a relationship.

Please keep us all in your prayers that we can make this new relationship work out, especially for Dean.

3 comments:

Karen said...

I'm sorry but if this is best then so be it. My prayers are always with you.
HUGS,
Karen

Sue said...

Elisha,
You know, Elisha, it's a blessing that you can remain friends...it will keep Dean centered, he will know that Ryan still loves him and there won't be any arguing or struggles to keep things going.
May God ease any pain that comes with all of this and you will be in our prayers.
With love and hugs,
Suelaurie

Melody said...

Change is never easy, even when it's for the best. I pray that God will ease some of the change for you, and keep all of you safely in Him. Thanks for letting us know.